Mind Control As A Submissive-Part One...

Mind Control, As a Dominant Do you Use It As a Tool? as a Submissive/Slave/Bottom How Does It Make you feel?

Someone asked this question in the FL group 'Dominant women'...No, I'm not a member, I just see one of my FL friends commented...

As a sub...Mind control...Hmmm??? What is mind control? Goes off to read all the comments...

I thought I would copy & paste some of the comments...Here goes...

Im a submissive. It makes me feel owned and obedient to my Goddess.

Ohhh!...That is what mind control is...I am only submissive in play, well it depends on the spanking session & the Dom...but...I don't want to feel 'owned' or obedient. I certainly don't want to see my Dom as a 'God'...Gods gift to subs into spanking, maybe...An adonis...Mmmm! Nah! I'm more of a distinguished gentleman' Dom, type of sub...

Feel owned...I just could not allow myself to feel owned, it would feel so wrong to me. I'm a feminist at heart..."Each to their own"

I wouldn't call it mind control but I do use manipulation tactics, and reverse psychology to get what I desire from my play partners. I also like to play the victim if I'm refused something.

Oo! Interesting...I'm not sure I would want to admit to possessing those negative traits, but, hey, if its just play, then that is fine, if it is not, well that is quite emotionally destructive in the long term. Actually. When I feel someone is trying to manipulate me, I back off, because I don't need that kind of negativity in my life...I think it is more irritating when the manipulator treats me like I'm too dumb to realise that I'm being manipulated...

Here is the comment my FL friend made...

I refer to it as behaviour modification when I see he needs adjustment in his behaviours.
A word here and there to encourage him into the way I see for him as mine.
Mutual consent is the enabler to that.

That is a good comment. Especially the 'Mutual consent is the enabler'. I have seen her in action at a BDSM event. She had a way about her which was respectful & tactful. Though, the male subs with the blue balls, that even made my eyes water...lol...

With an attitude like that, she could Dominate me & I'm not even into being Dominated, let alone by a woman. I do rebel against arrogance, disrespect & having to deal with unprovoked grief from women with emotional issues...I suppose some would call me a sub with attitude, or not a sub, or a complete $%^%^%...{Smiles sweetly & looks all innocent}...Nah! I just know my own mind...

i love mind control
i am a beta submissive, and yes as a submissive
i like the feeling and being truly controlled mind and physically

Now I have more questions...What is a beta submissive? The opposite of a alpha Dom I suppose. If the mind control is about certain words, in a certain tone of voice, which have the effect of making you...Ummm! Tingle all over, get very turned on. Like when he strokes his finger across your pussy & drawls in a sexy voice......Well you get the gist...

There is irritating, bordering on creepy, or arrogance & there is that tone where you can hear it in his voice that he is both turned on by what he is doing to you; your reactions & at the same time amused...That is the mind control for me. That is when I am at my most submissive...

There are a lot more interesting comments, so I will do a part 2-3...maybe 4...Mind control does seem to be quite a popular subject in the BDSM community...

Well I'm on my new journey of spanking discovery...Maybe I have got it in me to be submissive in the BDSM sense...I just need to get over past emotional abuse from someone who liked to use mind control, play mind games, but got it sooo wrong. Maybe because there was too many people involved. This Domly Dom did like to...To quote him...'Blow their minds' & that was not the subs. No. That was the other Dom's. He was such a show off. Where as I am more of a one to one play, type of sub...

That said...Being double Dommed...Now that was 'Wow!' 'Mmmm!'...Being double Dommed is a kind of mind control...That is a whole blog post in itself...

To be continued...