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| Be unique... Be yourself... Don't allow other people to make you feel bad about yourself... Don't allow other people to take advantage of you for their own selfish needs... Ummm! It's strange {Or maybe not} All the negative things people can do to you in your life, if you allow them to, that is... Are more enhanced in the scene... Ohhh! Nooo! taboo subject, mentioning that in the scene not everyone is 'lovely, like minded' There are arsehole jerks out there... Or just wear your blinkers & see everyone as 'wovwery' just because they're in the scene... Negative? Nah! Just realistic... Go with the flow? Nah, I'm not a bloke, I have to think about my own self preservation, I think 'Would I want my daughter to do that' If its nooo! frigging way, then I shouldn't do it either... Ohh!...but it's all fun & games... See...I can't get past the sickly sweet everyone is 'lovely' like minded 'naive' mentality... How many men in the scene think... {Well how I see it} You're are a rude, insecure, person, I really don't like... who in the vanilla world, I would not go near, ohh but once you're over my lap, all I can see is your bottom, I am only interested in spanking your bottom... Somehow, I don't think a woman will allow a man, she doesn't like, who is so obviously mentally unstable, to spank her, because he can cause her harm... Both psychically & mentally... As I'm typing this, I'm thinking I'll leave this in draft, because it sounds negative, it sounds like I'm negative & have issues... It's not quite that black & white... Finding the Fetlife group 'return to sender' though filled with negativity, showed me that 'No' it's not just me, other people feel this way too... The scene is filled with blokes, who think its perfectly acceptable to expect a woman, to play with them 'A complete stranger' Because they asked nicely... They said 'I want to spank you' Real life still applies! Sheesh! You want to spank me? Yet all I know about you, is... 'You want to spank me' There might be a few about you wossy on your profile... Usually You're male & into spanking... Really? On a spanking site? Go figure, lol... Me as a woman, I am not looking for just a lap... Just a right hand... Just a 'I'll spank you' Which is what I get now, since joining the mature women group on Fetlife... {Rolls my eyes} So the men don't trust us women? We might be psycho? We might WANT! them... We might want 'daily attention' We might want to see him 'regularly' as our {Gasp!} Dom/spanker... OMFG! Yeah! Yeah! He has nothing on his profile, but we can ask him anything... What do we want to know? Ohh! I dunno... What's his favourite colour? What's his star sign? Walk on a beach or in a forest? Lol! Actually that reminds me of a post I read in the FL group 'return to sender' He was being the usual time wasting wanker, she was winding him up, asking him mundane questions... Well it made me laugh... I'll get back to being a subbie going with the flow... Heres one of the many spanking picture I like... |
"Mmmm!" Being caned,
whilst laying on a comfy bed...
Even more "Mmmm!"
Being double Dommed!
Gotta go...I need coffee...
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