What Has Horse Racing Got To Do With Submissive Women...

'Mmmm!'
Wouldn't that be fantastic...
Not just you're bottom...
A Dom/spanker
not afraid to go all the way,
not just spanking my bottom.
giving me pleasure with pain,
but...
How do you explain that...Hmmm?

See, I'm confusing, well complex. I want more then just a 'going through the motions' spanking...but...I don't want to feel owned, or like I'm being trained to serve, or controlled. I may be a quiet introvert, but I am quite strong minded, I know my own mind...

I suppose it comes down to trust....It always seems to come down to trust...

True...
I am not into being referred to as a slut!
&...princess...Ummm! I use the word princess
to refer to a spoilt bitch!
So...
APPSOLUTELY! NO!
calling me a slut...
Or a princess..."Each to their own"

To me that would be patronising & demeaning. I would get the feeling that he was insulting me...I know some women are into being a 'slut'...I'm not. As for princess...As I said I use that word in a derogative way...Obviously that does not apply to disney princesses, lol...

These words  are closer to
explaining my idea of being
a submissive, submitting to her Dom...
Love as in a close friendship,
a close connection,
'Trust!'
I am married, I love my husband...
I have no intention of falling in love
with my Dom to the point
of wanting to be with him 24/7
& destroying my marriage...

With my ideal Dom, note I said 'my'...He will be able to treat me the same way, he will have that same attitude. Unfortunately my ideal Dom does not exist, so I am just playing...

How do you get across you're idea of being a submissive when the stereotypical submissive is so not me...I wonder sometimes if submissives behave this way because they feel its the way they are supposed to behave...Its not written in stone...

Being owned? Why should I have to be owned to feel like a true submissive? No one owns me, no one should ever own another person, that is emotionally destructive. I submit to the Dom who can make feel like I want to submit to him. I don't just submit to anyone, just because they call themselves a 'Dom'...

Mind you...Maybe submissives are like race horses. Horses won't race or jump if they don't want to. So..No...Horse racing is not cruel. If the jockey fulls off the horse keeps galloping along with the other horses, they still jump the fences...I know...WTF! am I wittering on about...

A submissive woman is submitting because she wants to. Not because her jockey is forcing her...Mind you, the whip...'Mmmm!'...

Nuff said for now...