Male spanker looking to make new friends in London
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| "Mmmm!" Yes! Pleasure & pain... |
I'm playing with my gentle hand Dom friend, in his hotel room, later. Well...no it's not his hotel, just the room for 2 nights, lol...I thought I had better clear that one up, I know how confused some peeps can get if you don't explain what you're on about...Just joshing...
Anyway. Will I contact him to make friends...Hmmm? Nah! Probably not, because sometimes, well most of the time actually. When men mention making friends, obviously they don't mean 'friends' as in 'friends'...What they actually mean, is...I'll be your friend if I can spank you... |
| I love being spanked in that position... I love being spanked hard... just not unbearably HARD! A firm spanking which stings a lot, is 'Mmmm!'... This is why I need to start using a safe word... I never used to want to use a safe word, I prefered to rely on my spanker reading my body language... ...but now...Well. It has become more like... 'Oowww!- Oowww!- Oowww!- OOowww!!- OOOowww!!!- bordering on 'Yellow!'... OOOOowww!!!! Yellow-No bordering on 'Red!'... OOOOOWWWW!!!! FUUUUCK!!! RED!!! RED!!!! RED!!! 'Mmmm!' back down to yellow, now yellow feels so 'Mmmm!'... Keep at yellow,,, Keep at 'OOowww!!! Keep at me staying in place & gripping a cushion, so I can bear it... {Sighs} When I played with 'M' a few weeks back... I gave him a 8/10... Which wasn't bad... He would have got a 10/10 if I had not been wishing I had a safe word a few times during the spanking... |
One of my pet peeves...The 'when you want to play you know where I am' WTF! Yeah, I know where you are, but I'll give you a miss, as I don't particularly want to play with casual acquaintances...Jeeze!
Maybe these men believe that 'Friendship' means 'clingy, needy, will full in love with him & want to move into his house, for a 24/7 passionate D/s relationship'...Or...{Gasp!} She'll want daily attention. Admittedly some women do want daily attention. Personally, I don't, I like my own space, but I don't do something so intimate with a casual on occasion geezer, who can't afford to pay a pro sub...
I should be in such a good mood. I'm about to play...but...All I think is...Ugh! I can take it or leave it. So why am I keeping my 'new journey of spanking discovery' spanking blog? Well...I'm living in hope that I will start to feel that 'Mmmm!' feeling just before a spanking, again. I'm looking forward to drinking red wine & having a good natter with a friend I have known for about 12 years...
There was a time when I would have been feeling all tingly & excited, anticipating what was to come. Don't get me wrong, once the spanking starts I am all tingly & 'Mmmm!'...So maybe I should just cut out the input with the man I am going to do something so intimate with & just cut to the spanking part...
I click on a spanking group on facebook. Its just wank fodder for men...{I have no issues with wanking, btw} I go in Fetlife. That is more interesting, but more about sex then spanking. Another forum, its all 'spanky abc' & what they done today...Then there is the one spanking site which could be really great...Its non stop bickering & drama. Admittedly only a few participate, everyone else seems to have vacated the forum. Maybe they're in the chat room, I dunno...
Maybe I'm just bored & need some variety. I know one thing. I'm not into HARD! spanking, with out the long more gentle warm up to start. I know I never was. Warm up, please...Then, once I am all relaxed & floating, then & only then can I take the HARD! spanking...
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