Sunday, 13 March 2016

I'm just going to be blunt!-Return to sender-

I have been in Fetlife again, reading posts in the groups. I fancied a laugh, so I went to see the latest posts in the group 'return to sender'...

"I'm just going to be blunt..." aka I'm judgmental because I want respect

by M
UGH this guy... no commentary necessary. On fet.
Hello sexy
FuckWit 30M
Too fucking close
I'm just going to be blunt... I'm interested in sex with strangers... No bullshit, just rough sex... Are you interested?
I'm intrigued. Are there any women out there in fantasy wank land, who that approach actually works on...Call me a prude...but, I can't see that approach getting him anywhere with anyone. Well, maybe another bloke who also thinks women are just there for free 'rough' sex...

M 25

Thanks for reading my profile, not.
Well, you're asking a lot there, luv...Read a profile. OMFG! That is too much like making small talk...

FuckWit 30M

OK, well thanks for responding... I wasn't thorough in reading your profile... Still hope you accept the friend request
Ummm!

M25

Yeah I could tell. And no I didn't because I don't want to be friends with dudebros who don't respect me enough to even get to know me before charging dick first into my inbox.
Lol! You tell him...

FuckWit 30M

OK... Understandable
M 25

You and people like you are everything that is wrong with fetlife and the Internet in general. You'll get a lot farther treating people like human beings than you will treating them like sex dispensers, Sparky
Yep! Shes not wrong...but he was polite. He did say your point of view was understandable...She is right, but maybe she should keep a blog instead of nagging some dick, who's just not listening, he doesnt care, he just wants free 'rough sex'...

FuckWit 30M

Valid point, but some women like being sex dispensers... Just because you're not like that, doesn't mean you get to judge others for what they're into
He's got a point, but where are these crazy women who risk being raped, murdered, stalked, catching a std...in the name of 'rough sex with a stranger' Just go dogging I'm sure there are a few women there into sex with a stranger...&...Do you think he realises that he was making conversation...lol...

M 25

I could give a shit about what you're into. That's not what this is about. This is about finding out if a woman wants that first instead of just assuming you can get anything you want from anyone you want. Let me ask, would you have walked up to me in person and asked me if I wanted rough sex with you? Would you have assumed I was single or willing to cheat on my partner?
Shes got a point...Guy's. Just read the darn profiles...Its like some French geezer on facebook. Adds me as a friend, I assumed from the spanking group I am a member of. I asked where he added me from. Apparently his translator was not working, so I unfriended him. Then he sends me some long message about him looking for a woman to whatever him. I told him I was a sub. He says thank you. I blocked him...Why did I block him...Because I knew he would be back to try again. After all his a man. Men have selective memories, I saved myself some time & hassle...

FuckWit 30M

Of course I wouldn't ask you that on the street, but that's why I'm online, to find that kind of woman... Some women want that kind of blunt honesty, and that's all they're looking for... Obviously you're not that type... Worse thing anybody can say to that question is, no... 
Ummm! Call me naive, but there are women out there who would meet a complete stranger just for 'rough sex' Nooo chatting. Nooo getting to know each other, check his safe & sane...Hmmm? That miracle to all douchebags needs an intervention, for her own health, sanity & safety...

I don't need a lecture from you or anyone else for that matter... Go on about your shit, and I will go on about mine... And I honestly don't give two fucks about what you think of me, or others like me... Keep your judgemental bullshit to yourself
Well, he is entitled to his own opinion, even if it is a narrow minded shallow, thoughtless one...Just saying...Read her profile. That is all it takes. If she is into free hook ups with complete strangers, for 'rough sex' It will say that on her profile...

M 25

Most women that I've met here want to be treated like ladies by strange men.
Yep!

 I didn't even get a hi how are you from you and I doubt any other woman has either. Besides its not that hard to read a person's profile and determine what they're into but you assumed with me and you'll probably assume with others. Let me know if that kind of ignorant behavior ever works out for you
And then I blocked him. The end.
Yeah! You tell him...

I can only assume that blokes like that are just time wasters. They have no intention of ever meeting a real woman for 'rough sex' or otherwise. If he was to use his brain & treat a woman with respect, she might want to meet him & {Gasp!} do something for real...

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