Calm down, luv!

We have a nagger...

From the FL group 'Return to sender'...

I'm tired of this crap

by m

Ok, I may have over reacted.

Yes you did, luv...

 This was the third message of this type today.

Sooo! Ignore them. Block them...Have a good moan in a blog...

 A "Dom", 29 years old, account is closing in a year old, belongs to Fetlife Announcements only, I photo, all female friends, no other action on his account at all.

Sooo?

I'm tired of guys like this messaging me and then expecting me to do all the heavy lifting of carrying a conversation! An introductory paragraph, hell, even a sentence!, would go a long way to starting a discussion! Because a flipping empty profile just doesn't help me decide if I want to talk to you. I got snarky. Sigh.

Nooo! You nagged...It was one long drone...

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Noskilz:
Hi trouble. How are you?

OMFG! The bastard!...Report him immediately, then block him...How dare he send a message like that. Asking how you are. What next...Disgusting!...lol...

maggie1319
Nothing in your profile to go by. Why did you contact me?

Hmmm! Snarky? No. I would say you bit his head off, luv...So he has nothing in his profile...Its not like he was jumping straight to the 'I want to whatever you' He was polite...

Noskilz::
Umm ok. Sorry for trying to make a conversation. Have a good day

maggie1319
How would I know that I want to converse with you? 

Hmmm! He said have a good day, luv. That was saying good bye...

There is literally nothing on your profile to go by, yet you had the benefit of reading mine (I hope).

I bet that was fun...

Also, when initiating a conversation, it would be helpful to include a possible topic to discuss, choosing something off my profile perhaps?

FFS! WOMAN!...He was initiating a conversation. Well, for normal people. Someone needs to get over themselves...

I'm completely open to conversation with new people, 

Really? You could have fooled me. He got his head bitten off...

but you need to put some effort into it, and bring those social skills to the table :)
You are welcome to try again

Oo! Get her...Some one thinks they're special, because they get sooo much attention in the scene, they forget their manners & 'Real life still applies'

Unbelievable...Rude c***

Noskilz:
Umm you just conversed with me. And maybe try the old fashion way. Actually ask questions and talk instead of reading a profile. Have a good day now

Yes. Conversation...The only time I get fed up with blokes, with empty profiles & do not read my profile, is when they want to cut straight to the meeting, nooo conversation. Yes you want to spank me, but what are you into. Because it helps to know what your top fetishes are. Mainly because I'm only into spanking...

 

maggie1319
That was not a conversation, that was a series of pro-tips that may get you the conversation you're looking for.

Really? I thought you was just being a stroppy madam...

If you had any idea of how many messages I receive daily that consist of "hi", "hey", and "how are you",

Thats awful...People saying hi, & how are you. What ever next...

 backed up by profiles that contain no information about the person contacting me, 

Profiles do help, but I usually look at the profile after responding to the Pm. Unless of course it is some tosser...Or there is no answer. Then I just ignore it...

you may actually either make the effort to fill in your profile, or open with something that shows at least a minimum of effort.

That was the first sentence, luv...He was initiating the conversation...Yeah, its boring, because everyone starts the same & they couldn't really care less how you are...

You asked how I was? I am good, thank you.

So why the 'princess' hissy fit, then...Hmmm?

And where does the conversation go from there? 

What are you upto?...ASL?...I'm horny?...Cam?...What are you here for?...The list is endless...

That would be up to you, as I know nothing about you, and therefore cannot go forward. 

Well you can 'chat', make conversation...It's not an interview...If it feels like all he is interested in is if he gets wank fodder, or is going to convince you to meet him, then I ignore him. Because I can...

Now, if you had a profile, I would read it and would hopefully have something gleaned from it to use as conversation fodder.

Do you print it out then have it next to you? Then start the interview...

You contacted me initially, 

I bet he was wishing he hadn't bothered...Stoopid-Stoopid-Stoopid! What was he thinking, saying hi, asking how she was, calling her 'trouble'...definitely trouble. Now go & write an essay on your profile so bints have conversation fodder...

Do you think he has got a bruise on his forehead?

Actually, it does help, but then I just ignore the blokes with nothing on their profile, because I can't be arsed to grill him for info, only to find that he is just looking for free rough sex...Ohh! but he'll spank me, he can do that...

it's not up to me to play twenty questions to draw information out of you.

You don't have to, luv, just be polite...You never know, it might lead on to an interesting conversation...

Now you have a good day.

Yes! You MAN! Have a GOOD! day...Don't do it again...& fill out your profile...Lol!

Noskilz:
Well you are one immature person for your age. Lol. 

Oo! Now his going to have his say...You go boy!

 

No need to argue with me about conversations. This clearly was a conversation ether you gave me unwanted ripe or whatever you did it was a conversation. 

Really? All I could hear in my head as I read it, was a whiny, droning nagging voice...Nag-Nag-Nag-Naaaag!!!

 

Maybe look up what a conversation means lol. And I was just started a conversation with you by asking how you were that all if you aren't interested in talking it's enough to say so. No need to send me endless emails. Thanks

Yep!

You know what. I would be scared to Pm some of these women...They can be sooo stuck up...I prefer more genuine friendly people, who don't jump down your throat for being imperfect...